So I attended service at Jubilee Christian Church International as they have a 3-day seminar, and what caught my attention the most was when the minister called out all those who are married and after recitations instructed the couples to kiss each other. That was when some congregants stood up for a better view, even the children jumped out of their chairs and leaned forward to catch a 'sight to behold', to their amazement and giggles.
Funny enough most of the couples were shy and only kissed in less than a second, while others laughed the process away. Come on, its not a sextape na!! Some took comfort in the mild crowd and indeed kiss, while i just stood there looking for 'picture perfect' :-p , well I didnt get to see. Come and beat me.
Most important of all is...couples were shy to kiss in the public, in church to be precise, maybe because its regarded as an holy place of worship, and they feel it shouldn't be stained...says who?? Abegi make una kiss joor make i shaa snap. Anyways, I want to believe they do that at home, 'indiscriminately', i presume. Fact is kissing in a union is one of the essentials that reassures of love and affection. It's part of what makes marriage sweet, unless your partner does not have 'sweet lips' (either sugar-coated, or seasoning-cooked), or is a bad kisser. It is a form of every day rededication to the one you love, thats why the female minister called the married out for a rededication and a crowning with a kiss.
Its not all about kissing though, a union involves vows, mouth confession and every day action to further solidify the union.
There's more to this marriage seminar than meets the eye, and you can only feed the eye...and your mind only if you're part of it. It has officially started, but the session kicks off proper this evening, 5.pm, then tomorrow and Tuesday, same time.
Come listen and learn how to make a marriage...your marriage work till eternity in the pool of divorces around you. Its at JCCI, Isale Abetu, Abeokuta, Ogun state, Nigeria.
In the meantime, lemme go and look for the picture perfect that my camera can KISS.
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